... that I've posted 2 days in a row?..lol.. I'm shocked. *wry smile*
Welp... "Wonder boy" has, I think, decided to move on.. what bothers me is that guys don't seem to see the need to tell me such things. *shrug* I realize it could be awkward... it just.. bothers me. Ya wanna date someone else? Fine.. we said it was "just friends" from the beginning.. can we be friends and not just avoid/ignore/feel awkward about wanting to date someone else? I'm not sure if this is a boy problem or a society created problem. I do feel thoroughly convicted that courting is a load of crap. Maybe it worked in a different day and time but it doesn't make sense to most ppl today and from my experience it just plain doesn't work. Casual dating could work... so long as one is guarding their heart. Which Wb would be a case of causal dating working - ish. I dunno... but I think Joshua Harris' whole "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" stuff is a croc-o-crap past highschool. Not dating when you can't pursue a marraige relationship makes sense. Not dating when you can pursue a marraige relationship doesn't make sense unless you're not interested in getting married. This doesn't mean I think everyone should date. I think the fact the ppl would try to force some general rule for dating/not dating is the biggest problem. I think it's between God and the individual. Just like all public and private Christian schools are wrong and homeschooling is the only way. That's a farce too. I'd like to homeschool my kids (should I ever get married and have any), but that's not the only way. Many ppl come through "alternative" education systems just fine. I very much think it's an individual thing. If any of this makes sense %) *shrug*. *sigh*.. we shall see what life brings, eh?
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